My husband had a nice birthday, considering what I should have done. I should have ignored him all day and got shit-faced and then sold his things for pennies on the dollar to buy more beer. I didn’t get him anything – not even a card. I did make him dinner and was especially sweet to him. I think we will see my family this weekend and have some cake for him. That’s why I love my family.
Today is Friday and I am actually terrified of coming home to a repeat of last Friday. I still haven’t said anything to him, and that is just purely stupid of me. I woke up this morning as he was getting into the bed. It was 6am, almost time for my alarm to go off. I asked him if he was just now going to bed and he said that he’d fallen asleep in the living room and was just now moving to the bedroom. I couldn’t smell any alcohol and he was still sound asleep when I left for work.
I’m at work now and he hasn’t been online at all today. I don’t feel that great myself, but I have to stay at work all day because the friend who I lived with has to drop her car off for repair and I am taking her home. I don’t know what we’ll do all weekend. My husband sometimes gets restless if we don’t have plans to do anything. I don’t have to work at job #2 so at least I’m off and able to rest!
On another note entirely, somehow this week I kept clicking links on blogs till I ended up on a blog about a sober alcoholic. I have read quite a bit of her blog and I have to tell you that her energy is something wonderful to me. She has a life far greater than any I have ever had, and she basically owes it all to the grace of God delivering her from her alcoholism. Her life isn’t perfect, but she lives by the twelve steps and her attitude is so refreshing to me. I would link to it, but I would be ashamed if she read through my blog. The insanity, the attempting to control. I know my life is a wreck because of alcohol and yet I still find myself immersed in it, unable to swim out. It is on my mind at all times as long as I remain with my husband. I am afraid it will never go away.
So, that’s what I’ve been doing all week. Reading her blog, which is basically just her daily goings on, yet I am completely fascinated with the peace that surrounds her. I want that.
Please wish me luck that he isn’t drinking today. I just want to be at home this weekend. I bought a new computer game that I could probably play for 72 hours straight and I am still feeling under the weather. I just want peace this weekend.